Taking A Break

Taking a break reminds me of that KitKat slogan "Have a break, have a KitKat" *smiles* - don't mind if I do!

Well everyone I know I haven't been on here much recently, but I thought I would perhaps have the time and as it has turned out I haven't.
My mom is over to visit from the UK and of course while she is here I am trying to spend as much time with her as possible (in between work), so I am sorry but probably for the remainder of this month I shall be taking a little break.

However I will most definitely be back and blogging more than ever once life returns to my usual 'norm', so in the meantime I hope you all have lots of spanking fun and for any of my readers who haven't found the blogs on my link list before - please stop by and visit them!

Please do keep checking back in case I do start blogging before the new month rolls in, however I do hope to see you all come November again - I just hope I don't miss much from the blogs I usually love to read ;-) !!!!!

Mrs M x

The Art of the Body

I haven't posted or visited others blogs much this past week I realize, unfortunately I have had the Flu which means I have been resting whenever I can and it still hasn't quite gone yet.

Well today (while resting *grins*) I have had some random thoughts, and found some rather random yet intriguing things to share.

First of all I wanted to share a picture I found, I wouldn't call this one particularly erotic - but it was very unique and the art work on this womans body is incredible!

In fact it was so incredible I began to research body art, and came to the conclusion it is my new favorite form of art. What could be more beautiful than the human body itself used as a canvas for something incredibly beautiful painted?

I wonder how long it took to paint her like that?
It also makes me wonder, if you were going to have body art done or be painted as a scene - what would it be?


Here are two more that are rather erotic and beautiful in my opinion, true works of art...





I bet it feels wonderful to have someone paint on you as well? Those brush strokes, with the cool sensation of the paint....

Finally, as another random thought today this little piece of writing came to my mind. It isn't anything special, but was definitely something I had the urge to write. It was inspired by the thought of being 'in the moment'....

She's wearing nothing but her lace panties, stockings, garter belt and high heels.
She's breathing heavily as you near her, coming closer and closer.
She bites her lip as she feels your finger carress her cheek.

Soon it will happen.

Your affection towards her stops abruptly, and she knows what is coming next.
You turn her around roughly, gripping her arm tightly.
You bend her over the bed, and you see how creamy white her derierre is.
The wrong color in your opinion, not enough life or vibrancy in it yet.

She gasps a little in fear, as she feels her panties being pulled down to her knees.
She sticks her behind out more in compliance with your orders, awaiting the first blow.
She hears your breath on the back of her neck, as you close in on her and kiss softly.

Soon it will happen.

You feel she has been tortured enough.
You know it is almost time, because her pussy lips are moist in anticipation.
You savor the moment, for it is beautiful.
You undo your belt.

She hears it, that wonderful yet fearful sound of the belt being loosened.
She is ready, her bottom clenched causing dimples to appear.
She swears she knows the precise moment you raise your arm, even though she can't see it.

Soon it will happen.

You don't waste any more time, and it whistles through the air.
THWACK.

She doesn't cry out yet, but you hear the breath escape her lungs.
THWACK.

This one makes her grip the bed sheet tighter, and you see the effects of the belt begin to blush her cheeks.
THWACK.

She moans in pain and pleasure this time, and you see her hand move down towards her clit.
THWACK.

You tell her to stop, and get back in position. She does without question.
THWACK, THWACK, THWACK.

She can no longer hold it back, she cries out in pain and begins grinding against the bed.
THWACK.

She is getting close, you can sense it - you can smell it even and you know she just needs one more push over the edge.
THWACK,THWACK, THWACK.

She is a stubborn one, she is holding on to it it seems.
THWACK,THWACK, THWACK.

She cries out, yet you don't hear the pain in her voice this time. No you hear, more, more, more.
THWACK, THWACK, THWACK.

It's happening. The last one does it, and she takes a dive off the edge into the greatest ocean of pleasure.
SMACK.

It was your hand touching her that did it, and her body spasms as the pleasure fills her being and she cums.

You press your body up against her, placing your hand over her cunt feeling it pulse in delight.

You own this woman,body, heart and soul.

She is yours.... Collapsing, breathing, sweating, panting, loving......

Calling the Maintenance Guy?

Weird title you may be thinking to yourself? Yes it is, but Maintenance Spanking days remind me of the times when you need to call in the plumber or electrician.

My husband is the fix it guy in my house (not that I can't screw in a light bulb and I am way better with computers than he is), so as Mr Fix it - it is only sensible that he be the one to take good care of me, spank me and fix any problems I or we may have.

Why does he spank me?

• For fun


• For behavior modification


• For tension relievers


• For reminders


• For good communication


• and just because he wants to apparently *grin*!

Maintenance spanking is kinda new to Mr M and I, but he has taken to it like a fish in water and is quite determined we have at least one session a week on a day he chooses or deems appropriate.

Today was chosen, and so I am waiting for that time when he will send me into the bedroom and begin our ritualistic process of maintaining me and more importantly us. Spanking is all about us and in my belief has created a very loving, caring, sensual, deep and connected relationship.

Our communication with one another is a lot more open and thoughtful than I see in relationships of my friends and family, not that I am saying if you live a 'vanilla' life you are missing out on something as that isn't true. Spanking truly has to suit the person doing it, if it doesn't then you will not gain any of the benefits from it.

But for my husband and I, when it comes to comparing our relationship with friends and family - we have seen how being involved and interested in spanking has helped us and made us a close and loving team.

I wouldn't change it for the world, nor do I want to and although I may complain about him spanking me from time to time *weg* I do in fact love it deep down and appreciate every single time he cares for me in that way.

Now as for today's maintenance, I have a feeling it isn't just going to be a caressing with a rose session. I have neglected to follow most of my rules all week long, and I have not been communicating very well leading to nights of pure moodiness on my behalf. So apparently there is one well known remedy for all this, a much heavier spanking with discipline undertones.

Also having read Penfolds comment on my last post got me into extra 'trouble', I couldn't help but find her words so amusing and giggle like a child. This however got Mr M's attention and he asked what I was laughing at, I explained what she had said and because I had found so much delight in her upcoming spoon experience (influenced by my post) he decided perhaps we should use our spoon collection tonight also. Thanks sis :-p

So like I mentioned I am sitting here, waiting and wondering whether it would be a good idea to hide or better yet burn the spoons (especially Mr Motivator) before we have our little 'talk'.

Oh how Mr M likes calling our spanking sessions a 'talk', sure there is talking involved - but most of the talking is done with his hand! Him calling it a talk is just pure evil enjoyment on his behalf, as he can use the term when we are out in public knowing that I know what it means but no one else really does. I have to admit though, for whatever reason - I can't help but get turned on with shivers of excitement tingling up and down my spine every time he says it!

Spanking huh? Can't live with it and I can most definitely not live without it!

Hope everyone has been enjoying their weekend...

Spanking Here, Spanking There, Spanking Everywhere!

* Sorry for such a late post everyone, basically I have been without a computer for over a week as mine decided to die on me and have only just gotten a new one. But hopefully I should be back to blogging as usual from now on...

Well Mr M and I were very busy this past weekend, not busy in any other sense other than busy spanking – we had a lot of fun and I have so much to share!

Where to begin? Well of course we tried Mr M spanking me during a movie that we were watching, which was pretty nice but I think we had rather poor timing and need to work on the appropriate time and place to do it next time!

What went wrong exactly? Nothing went wrong per se; however we started watching our film rather late which meant we were both quite tired. Never the less being the avid spankers we are, we continued with the spanking plans we had made previous that day and I laid across his lap all nicely while watching the movie (which I also admit was not the best choice in movies to watch during a spanking – I think I need some of PK’s DVD’s!)

The caressing was lovely, and I can absolutely see why Dave, Daisy, Bear and Penfold love it. It was very relaxing to have Mr M gently stroke his fingertips along the curves of my bottom, with a little squeeze every now and again to accompany it.

The spanks were even nice, as Mr M alternated between soft and somewhat hard swats – the problem was as the movie was a horror I got rather “scared” (lol) and instead of being laid over Mr M’s lap I wanted – strike that – needed to be in his arms!

Ghosts and spankings just don’t mix well in my opinion lol, and because of such I ended up snuggled into his arms and chest which for me is just as nice as a spanking on a night like that.

The next spanking experience I had was on Sunday, we had gone out to our local bookstore and read some books while sitting in the café. After our enjoyable bookstore trip, we decided on the way home it would be nice to visit one of our local thrift shops and have a gander at what they had to offer.

While searching through the antiques, misfits, unwanted items and treasures I began seeing things that could be used for spankings or were spanking related. Suddenly a normal everyday visit to your local thrift store (which I was meant to try and find bedside tables in), became much more exciting – it had turned into a kinky spanking supply shop!

I found a very questionable sign, which I know is innocent – but I still don’t know what it has to do with actual cake buns?

‘Oh’ I thought to myself, ‘I must show this to my blog friends’.

So out comes my handy phone camera and I begin looking around me for any signs of other people and especially staff, who may either think I’m weird or think I’m up to no good. Lo and behold I couldn’t find a moment without any other person around, so I pretended I was bending down to read some book titles as I positioned the sign carefully to get a quick shot.

I must admit I was rather proud of myself, and I am sorry if the photo isn’t very good – but I really did do my best in such a badly lit room lol!

I thought this sign would go perfect over a rack of spanking implements, or in particular Mr M’s belt. I didn’t end up buying it unfortunately, as I had a rather full basket to begin with – but what I came upon next was even better and well worth a buck or two!

In a delicate china bowl, positioned in the corner out of the way in one of the filled treasure troves I found some wooden spoons. Now I know you can get wooden spoons from anywhere, and I have ones with which I use to cook. But these were perfect for spanking, and I love how hand made and old fashioned they look.

They just aren’t like modern spoons, and have a look of history about them – perhaps they were used to spank a brat once back in the 50’s?

Although they probably are more modern than that…

I gathered them up quickly and found Mr M in a flash who was looking at fiction to read, he studied them and swatted them against his hands a couple of times which I fretted at him for and then he smiled and said ‘I think I like these’ in that tone which means only one thing – he can’t wait to try them out!

We left shortly after my find, and on the way home he studied them closer and announced how he was going to spank me with them later. He said he wanted to find out what positions they work best in and which ones sting the most, of course I wasn’t going to argue – after all spanking was exactly the reason for my purchase! However I wasn’t quite so placid and laid back when it came to the actual spanking.

The spoons all come in different shapes and sizes, in fact one of them even has a couple of holes in it and therefore all are very different to handle and of course provide different feelings/sensations.

Once home Mr M told me to march to the bedroom, take off my pants and panties, fold them up and place them on the bed next to me where I was to wait for him (which is a part of our spanking rituals). I did as was asked of me and when he came in he was smiling as he walked over to the bag with our purchases in it.

He took out the spoons and laid them on the bed, before having me stand up and bend over. He massaged my buttocks and then picked up the first spoon rubbing its hard wood over my cheeks, while telling me I have to remember what spoons he used and in what order as he wanted a review of them posted on my blog later.

Gees as if spanking isn’t hard to deal with sometimes (especially when it comes to wooden implements), I now have to remember what order things were used in?

Anyway he told me how he wanted my review to include exactly how I felt about each implement, as my reactions and comments would greatly effect how he uses them in the future (pressure or what?)

So without further ado he began spanking me with the first spoon, the long wooden one without holes – the spoon I now dub – ‘The Zinger’. Boy was this one a surprise; I did not expect it to sting as much as it did. It was such a sharp sting, that it really did take my breath every now and again when I would least expect it to strike.

The second spoon was a shorter one, perfect for otk – but apparently a lot harder for Mr M to maneuver properly while I am bent over something as the handle is so short. This spoon I shall name –‘The Tickler’.

This one doesn’t hurt as much as the others, and is rather timid in comparison but I would say great for just playful spankings.

The final one Mr M used on me was his favorite apparently; however it was most definitely not mine. This one was to take my breath away, and have me flailing all over the bed whimpering and pleading. This spoon I call ‘Mr Motivator’ – perhaps that’s what Mr M should mean after all (as he’s a good motivator lol)?!

But quite seriously, the reason I dubbed it Mr Motivator is because of the super special sting and burn it causes every time is strikes. Which leads to the simple fact that if you have tasted this dear spoon before you will no longer want to experience it again and therefore have been motivated to behave even before it has touched your hiney!

This spoon was the one with holes in it, and whether it was the holes I don’t know (however I have heard that wooden paddles with holes are far more painful then without holes) but all I can say is all my decorum ran out the room screaming and my hands were covering any part of my bottom that they could reach before being moved away. Never mind the fact that I was rolling around the bed wailing, heaven knows how Mr M kept me still long enough to spank me with it – but he did!

With every one of these spoons he spanked me around 20 times with each, and although I loved getting some much needed attention on my peach. I absolutely don’t want to experience Mr Motivator any time soon lol.

That is all for my spanking experiences thus far this month, and we shall have to wait and see what the rest of September has to offer in sweet anticipation…

Happy Spankings Everyone!

That's Better, That's Tetley!

Glorious Labor Day Weekend especially when it starts with some tea therapy (still haven't found where to buy this tea over here yet)....



This long weekend has certainly done the trick for my mid-week blues, everything is back to normal - actually strike that - as everything is much better now!


Work was just fine, if not actually enjoyable Friday and Mr M and I made up in the best possible way for us (which generally means spanking and other intimate activities ;-)!)

I was certainly reminded about the meaning of 'love, honor and obey' since my last lesson in those words on our wedding day...


But quite seriously, this weekend has been very pleasant and relaxing so far. We both had the longest sleep in that we have ever had I believe, and then when we finally did get up it was after a massage and just to eat a nice cooked breakfast together.

Later after doing a few jobs around the house we went out to eat dinner, picked up some movies to watch and played a bit of Rock Band on the Wii (as we both enjoy that game!)

So yeah a very relaxing weekend so far indeed, I do hope you are all enjoying your Labor Day weekend too...

Now on to spanking related topics, I read Bear N Penfolds blog earlier this week as I usually do and they were talking about different types of spankings and spanking positions one could do. There were some great thoughts given in comments, and one of my favorite was the spanking during a movie comment.

Now don't get me wrong we have tried over the years different activities during movies, but never spanking.

Why? I have no idea, you'd think for a spanko couple both would go hand in hand so to speak?

However when we usually spank it is with the TV off and is a matter of business whether playful or not to the both of us, which therefore derives all of our attention.
But maybe I would watch the movies he likes and I don't better if he was spanking me during them? LOL....

More importantly if we can be intimate during movies in other ways, why not with a nice erotic spanking?

So I showed Mr M the post with comments on Bear N Penfolds blog, and he very much liked the idea and thought we should try it out tonight.

Wish us luck! I think it will be very enjoyable, he keeps informing me of everything he wants to do during the movie - I especially liked the sound of the caressing part!
But who knows, it could get a bit annoying if I'm trying to listen to a crucial part in the plot of the movie and he is spanking too loud or distracting me in other ways lol - but after all who needs TV when you have your entertainment at home already?




ps... I think I have an addiction to YouTube if you guys haven't noticed already lol?

Unwanted Visitors!

Well this week is really just not my week, in fact it has been a pretty bad week so far!

Work has just been incredibly busy and stressful, and on top of that I had an extremely rude customer yesterday giving me attitude and yelling at me even though we had only been following procedure.

I had a disagreement with Mr M a couple nights ago, which left us both in a mood with one another and don't get me wrong Mr M is perfect for me and of course I love him. But we are individuals and don't always see eye to eye on everything all the time, therefore just like any other couple we have our fall outs.
Of course we were both over the disagreement after sleeping on it, but it has still left some tension and so we have been working on getting over that.

Then to top it all off, Aunt Flow is due any time now meaning my hormones are all over the place and I pretty much feel like curling up under the blankets in bed and not coming out until this week goes away.
I think Dolly Parton knows how I feel, this video pretty much says it all!



On the positive side however, the sun is shining which is lovely to see as it was gray and raining yesterday!

Also the week is almost over, and it will soon be Labor Day weekend yay! Lots of quality time with Mr M and late morning rises!

Hope everyone else's week has been great and today treats them kindly ;-)

Spanking Humor!

If you could not quite read the speech bubbles it says:

Girl - 'Only ten hail Mary's..... aren't you going to take my knickers down and spank me like last time?'

Confessional Priest - 'SSSSSSH'

Cross Priest - 'Hmmmm'.

Could you imagine the queue of Catholic spanking enthusiasts for a church that had priests which spanked instead of ordered hail Mary's? lol

Now on to more humor...

Looks like more people than we know have spanking fetishes, even television personalities!




Finally, I wonder if all our guys or girls who deliver the good whallops and spanking fun have this song playing loud in their minds as they march to their impending spank related mission?!